Heard this Beautiful poem by Dr. Kumar Vishwas on you tube today ... here
Koi Deewana kahta hai Koi Pagal samajhta hai,
magar dharti ki bechaini ko bas badal samajhta hai.
Main tujhse door kaisa hoon , Tu mujhse door kaisi hai,
ye tera dil samajhta hai ya mera Dil samajhta hai..
Maohabbat ek ehsason ki pawan si nishani hai,
Kabhi Kabira diwana tha kabhi Meera Diwani hai.
Yahan sab log kahte hain mere aankhon me aansun hain,
Jo tu samjhe to moti hain.. jo na samjhe to pani hain..
Samandar peer ka andar hai lekin ro nahin sakta,
Ye aansoon pyar ka moti hai isko kho nahin sakta.
Mere chahat ko dulhan tu bana lena , magar sunle
Jo mera ho nahin paya.. wo tera ho nahin sakta...
Bhramar koi kumudni par machal baitha to hangama,
Hamare dil me koi khwab pal baitha to hangama.
Abhi tak doob kar sunte the sab kissa mohabbat ka
Main kisse ko haqeeqat me badal baitha to hangama....
Friday, December 14, 2007
Thursday, December 13, 2007
LiVinG LiFe on mY oWn RuLes
Everyone of us want to live like this right.... On our own rules... in our own way... and I think that's completely right you should be the owner of your life.. But discussing it with one of my frnd I felt some problmes in it and where can we go wrong in it. I am wrinting what I think abt it... and what I should keep in mind when I am planning to make/ follow my own rules...
First things which creates problem is that we are not just happy by following our own rules.. we want other people to be happy or support us while we are following our rules and atleast accept us with our own rules... This is very important in life because we dont want to live alone in world so we want other to be comfortable with our rules... and we dont want to compromize with our own rules for that... problem starts when other person also has his own rules and thinking and when those things conflict with our thinking .
I think that this problem becomes worse and our relationship with other people ruins when we try to prove that our thinking and our rules are correct and not his or her... If we want others to respect our rules , we first need to understand that he/She might have their own rules and they have complete right to follow them .. We have reasons to think what we think and they also have reason for there thinking.. how can we say that he is wrong and I am right... we just follow things according to our impression of world. When these kind of conflicts comes why dont we live our way and let others live their way... we can talk abt our thinking .. we can suggest what we think but we cant force other to follow our thinking because we are not even sure that we are correct... if our relations are healthy enough we can argue abt our point but if it's not it's better to leave people with their thinking.We need not fight them to prove that they are wrong....
For Ex if your friend dont like something or someone.... whome u appriaciate a lot... we start fighting and arguing with them over it .. Why ? if you have right to like something other also has complete right to dislike someone... why you want to take their independence of thoughts... how are you so sure that the thing/person u r talking abt is really good... it's just his impression on you... and your friend has different impression of the same thing... you can put your point and if it changes other mind and impression.. then fine otherwise let him be happy with what he has... we simply start hating people whose thinking doesn't matches to our thinking... we just decided that he/She is wrong person... instead we just need to understand that he is doing exactly same what you are doing... We need not hate or fight with the people with different thinking.. it's there right .. if you'll respect thier thinking and sometimes try to evaluate why they might be thinking like this... Most of the time they'll also respect your rules...
It's just a reminder to myself because even when I feel this I forgot this important thing many times in life and want others to follow my rules... and I am also writing it in open space so that no one will take it as a lecture given to them and as if I am trying to make them follow me... I just say what I think and what I observed from my life and other's life's experiences...
I think we should follow our rules and thinking and at same time respects other's too.....
First things which creates problem is that we are not just happy by following our own rules.. we want other people to be happy or support us while we are following our rules and atleast accept us with our own rules... This is very important in life because we dont want to live alone in world so we want other to be comfortable with our rules... and we dont want to compromize with our own rules for that... problem starts when other person also has his own rules and thinking and when those things conflict with our thinking .
I think that this problem becomes worse and our relationship with other people ruins when we try to prove that our thinking and our rules are correct and not his or her... If we want others to respect our rules , we first need to understand that he/She might have their own rules and they have complete right to follow them .. We have reasons to think what we think and they also have reason for there thinking.. how can we say that he is wrong and I am right... we just follow things according to our impression of world. When these kind of conflicts comes why dont we live our way and let others live their way... we can talk abt our thinking .. we can suggest what we think but we cant force other to follow our thinking because we are not even sure that we are correct... if our relations are healthy enough we can argue abt our point but if it's not it's better to leave people with their thinking.We need not fight them to prove that they are wrong....
For Ex if your friend dont like something or someone.... whome u appriaciate a lot... we start fighting and arguing with them over it .. Why ? if you have right to like something other also has complete right to dislike someone... why you want to take their independence of thoughts... how are you so sure that the thing/person u r talking abt is really good... it's just his impression on you... and your friend has different impression of the same thing... you can put your point and if it changes other mind and impression.. then fine otherwise let him be happy with what he has... we simply start hating people whose thinking doesn't matches to our thinking... we just decided that he/She is wrong person... instead we just need to understand that he is doing exactly same what you are doing... We need not hate or fight with the people with different thinking.. it's there right .. if you'll respect thier thinking and sometimes try to evaluate why they might be thinking like this... Most of the time they'll also respect your rules...
It's just a reminder to myself because even when I feel this I forgot this important thing many times in life and want others to follow my rules... and I am also writing it in open space so that no one will take it as a lecture given to them and as if I am trying to make them follow me... I just say what I think and what I observed from my life and other's life's experiences...
I think we should follow our rules and thinking and at same time respects other's too.....
Reminder to myself
Why I shouldnt be Sad or loose all hope even when life is not treating me that well...
* coz Even If life is not treating me tht well as it used to, I remember that it has given me lot of beautiful things which I can cherish and remembering all that should make me feel happy....
* coz Every hour and every day I am getting in life is very precious and I can spend that being sad but I can use it to improve my life situation's .. no one can stop me for trying for Good/happy life...
* coz there are lot of people who loves me lot.. and feel sad when I am sad .. and I should avoid being reason for others sadness
* Coz I have made so many Good friends in life who can do lot of things for me if i ask them and I too can share lot with them.
* coz I think I have lot more than what is required for a good , happy life and I should keep trying to make it better.
* Coz I am a young person and I have confidence that I can handle any situation/problem which might come in life.
* coz I understand that life will be boring if problems wont come... problems will come and I need to handle them and I'll do that.
* coz I should not blame any one or any situation for my problems, I should be completely responsible for the situation I am in... and when I blame myself I should try to improve myself so that I dont enter in such situations again.
* and finally this world/ this life is very beautiful and I need to see,capture lot of them.. I should try to make my surrounding beautiful... my people happy.. and things will definately reflect on me... I know this world needs me... I can do lot for it...
for those who think my life is so easy going and smooth.. let me tell you , you need to search for all these reasons in ur life.Reasons to give you confidence and happiness... If I really try I can find lot more reason to be sad but I dont think I should even think abt them....
for those who read my last post and want to know which boat I cought... let me confirm that I am still in the stream still seeing both the boats going away from me.. and because I dont even know swimming I think I should take rest on the Island and learn swimming and then start my own way... Right now both boats don't want me :-)......
* coz Even If life is not treating me tht well as it used to, I remember that it has given me lot of beautiful things which I can cherish and remembering all that should make me feel happy....
* coz Every hour and every day I am getting in life is very precious and I can spend that being sad but I can use it to improve my life situation's .. no one can stop me for trying for Good/happy life...
* coz there are lot of people who loves me lot.. and feel sad when I am sad .. and I should avoid being reason for others sadness
* Coz I have made so many Good friends in life who can do lot of things for me if i ask them and I too can share lot with them.
* coz I think I have lot more than what is required for a good , happy life and I should keep trying to make it better.
* Coz I am a young person and I have confidence that I can handle any situation/problem which might come in life.
* coz I understand that life will be boring if problems wont come... problems will come and I need to handle them and I'll do that.
* coz I should not blame any one or any situation for my problems, I should be completely responsible for the situation I am in... and when I blame myself I should try to improve myself so that I dont enter in such situations again.
* and finally this world/ this life is very beautiful and I need to see,capture lot of them.. I should try to make my surrounding beautiful... my people happy.. and things will definately reflect on me... I know this world needs me... I can do lot for it...
for those who think my life is so easy going and smooth.. let me tell you , you need to search for all these reasons in ur life.Reasons to give you confidence and happiness... If I really try I can find lot more reason to be sad but I dont think I should even think abt them....
for those who read my last post and want to know which boat I cought... let me confirm that I am still in the stream still seeing both the boats going away from me.. and because I dont even know swimming I think I should take rest on the Island and learn swimming and then start my own way... Right now both boats don't want me :-)......
Monday, December 03, 2007
changed corner after 4 yrs... :-)
My Corner Of the World..
Originally uploaded by PrasoonRana
I can still remember how exciting but tough decision it was to shift in a better but more expensive room .. 4 yrs back... we four friends not earning too much but fed up with the pathetic room decided to shift to this new 2 BHK house .... it was more spacious , had better kitchen and bathroom, wardrobes... and over all this.. it had a nice balcony...
In past four year I have stayed with many room mates in this house.. and all became nice friends...
from last 8 months , this house's state was not very good... my owner didnt paint it for last 4-5 yrs and because of some construction works all wall had nice designs over them... we found a much better house near by and on last weekeend we shifted the house... it was a tiring event to pack all the stuff I have collected in 4 yrs ... loads of books and clothes... I was really disappoint to see how many books and cloths I have.. which I rarely read/use.....
neways.. done is done.. now I have a new corner... new neighbours ( remember my old neighbour :-p ? ).. and much cleaner and bigger house....
trying to name down all my room mates turned friends stayed in previous house in last 4 yrs....
Ankur Setia ( moved to Gurgaon.. now in Noida )
Sachin Gupta ( moved to Noida.. now somewhere in thsi world ;-) )
Prashant Nahata ( moved to Mumbai )
Prasann Joshi ( Got married and now father of cute daughter )
Abhishek Sharma ( Still with me )
Raj ( Moved to pune.. might come back soon)
Abhishek Jaiswal ( went Germany for short assignment now no come back )
Sandeep Sharma ( a nice cook..moved to pune... Got married )
Deepinder Singh ( an old frnd .. like to stay alone in his own word.. moved to seprate house soon... good for us ;-) )
Sunil ( getting married on coming 5th.. will move after that )
Janardan ( Abhishek's bhanja :-)... a nice young fellow )
Mohit ( College frnd's brother.. searching for job in Bangalore)
Oh God.. did I miss neone... plz remind me if i did... ... :-)
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